Why Do People Dislike Christians: A Review of Good Faith

Good-FathGrade-schoolers wearing cross necklaces, sleep-deprived college students witnessing to their coeds over a carb loaded lunch, and a flip-flop wearing forty something telling her neighbor that she believes marriage is between a man a women are not usual images that Christians associate with extremism. We picture guys with long beards blown themselves up and crazy white dudes driving cars into monuments.

But most Americans are just as likely to associate the first group of images with ‘extremism’ as they are later ones. According to the Barna Group, most Americans label their neighbors who uphold traditional marriage, believe Jesus is the only way to heaven, and who publicly share their faith to be extreme. (p.11, 42). Now while we may not like the term ‘extremist,’ most Christians would agree that America’s culture has shifted away from its Christian heritage. Sixty-five percent of evangelicals feel misunderstood, and sixty percent believe they are already being persecuted for their faith. What happened and why are Christians viewed as extremist?

Seeking to answer these questions and to chart a way forward through Babylon, David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons published the book, Good Faith back in 2016. After combing through ridiculous amounts of data, the authors discovered that most Americans view people like you an me who sit in a church-pew most Sundays to be irrelevant and extreme.

The modern stance towards Christendom in some instances is the result of poor education. People simply do not know what the church does for society. Almost half of Americans believe that a majority of charitable work happens outside the church (p.29).

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However in many cases the perception that Christianity is dangerous can be traced back to a new religion, the religion of self. Americans today find Christianity extreme because the new moral code declares you to be the source of all truth. Eighty-nine percent of Americans believe people should not criticize other’s life choices (p.58).  “And according to that moral code, any competing morality – say, a religion – that seeks to constrain someone’s pursuit of personal fulfilment must itself be constrained” (p.59). Christians are no longer interacting with a secular world. They are interacting with the world of Ireligion.

After showing their readers the current dispositions of our American culture, the authors turn their attention to helping Christians navigate their way through the new culture landscape. They show that Christians can meaningfully engage those who disagree with them by affirming the truth of the Bible. 

While the culture believes the Bible is outdated, the book is actually the very thing are culture needs. And if we are willing to humbly step forward and love our neighbors, the gospel can and will still go forward as we tackle issues ranging from homosexuality to racism. And as the authors tackle these various topics, they bring many insightful stats and personal stories that help everyone better understand the Biblical solutions to today’s problems.

In an encouraging note, the authors also promote the local church and expository preaching. Instead of encouraging people to abandon the church to save the gospel, they are encouraging people to dive back into the church so that the gospel can go forward.

If you have a heart to better understand your neighbors, to reach the lost, and to influence the world for Christ, you will want to grab a copy of Good Faith. To date, Good Faith is the best resource for understanding how the world outside our churches thinks. If you have a couple of hours and heart for seeing the gospel expand in the United States, read Good Faith.

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What Do Vacation Trends Reveal About Our Church?

Vacation-TrendsWe want to relax.

Life is stressful. Our jobs stress us out. Our kids stress us out. Even our smartphones, which promise entertainment, relationship, knowledge, connection, and increased spirituality actually just stresses us out.

The constant pressure to do more, to see more, and to be more drives us from the moment we open our eyes until the moment fall asleep…after checking our email one last time. Only thirty-four percent of us always busy Americans use all of our paid vacation days according to a recent study by the Associated Press NORC Center for Public Affairs Research (Trying saying that 5 times fast- yikes). And eighty percent of us have experienced burnout.

Though we are reticent to get away, most of us cannot wait to get away from the busyness our life. The Associated Press discovered that sixty-six percent of us would happily have a more mundane vacation if that meant extra days away from the office and home. Most of them, fifty-six percent, do not believe their home can provide them with a real vacation. Thus, they long to travel.

What do we want to do with that time away? Most of us just want to relax. Seventy-three percent of Americans simply want to do nothing while on vacation. Americans are searching for a relaxing space full of peace and quiet.

When people go on vacation, they do not just leave work behind. They often leave church behind. Almost every church consulting firm, pastoral support group, and para-church team publishes a book or blog designed to help churches maintain their attendance and giving numbers during the dry summer months.

I think the fact that people disappear from our churches over the summer months may reflect more on our local church than on the people seeking relaxation. I believe that many people are desperate to get away from their established church because their church has become just another program. They see church as an event to attend, a place to occasionally serve, and an institution to support. “It is simply what good people do.”

Church for many people has ceased to be life changing. Church is no longer the place in which Americans encounter God through preaching, singing, prayer, and fellowship.

I fear that many Christians are ok with taking a vacation from church because church is not a place of relaxation. The see it as a place of legalistic work that helps them pursue their version of moralism.

To undo this perception, churches must begin to focus less people and more on Christ. Instead of preaching on how we overcome sorrow and grief, we need to preach on how God has conquered sin. Instead of making sure we have connected with people by ministering to their felt need or be entertain them through a good story, we need to proclaim the glory of God. Nothing beats that story.

If people come to our church and witness only things that can be down in human power, they will see church as just one more event. But if people come to church and encounter the living God, seeing their soul and other souls supernaturally changed by God, they will happily stay involved in church through the summer.

Churches should be always be a place where all can, “Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” –Psalm 46:10.

Even if God is in our church, I suspect people will still go on vacations. Time away from work and usually responsibilities can be refreshing to our souls. Christ ducked away on many occasions to pray and be with his heavenly Father. Vacations are not wrong or sinful. Vacations are good blessings from above.

But, people should never need to take vacation from church. The rooms under our steeples should be the very place where the weary soul can find rest in the arms of God. If God is in our church, brothers and sisters in Christ will not want to stay away for long.

Is your church a spiritual getaway?

Don’t Be That Guy: The Christian Who Destroyed The Ten Commandments

ten-commandment.jpgShouting, “Freedom” with contemporary Christian music playing in the background, Michael Tate Reed hit the gas pedal of his 2016 Dodge Dart with righteous indignation. Seconds later, he and his car crashed into the Ten Commandments Monument recently installed outside the Arkansas State Capital. His victory would be short lived. Police officers at the capital witnessed the incident and quickly arrested Reed.

Sadly, this not Reed’s first rodeo. He attacked a similar statue in Oklahoma. He also regularly breathes threats of vengeance against former President Barack Obama and President Donald Trump. The man has some issues.

His greatest issue is not politicians who blur the line between state and religion. His greatest issue is tied to his view of personal autonomy.

Reed believes he should have the freedom to do what he wants when he wants (all-be-it in weird, conservative, Christian short of way). Thus, he slams into monuments that offend his view of the world and spits a pictures adorning the walls of Federal Buildings.

In his defense of personal autonomy, Reed revealed the ultimate futility of his philosophy.  By fighting for ‘his’ freedom, Reed got jailed, lost social media privileges, and wrecked his car. He lost the ability to act by acting to gain freedom.

Though Reed claims to be functioning from a Christian Worldview, he is not actually following the teachings of the Bible. The very statue he destroyed comes from Exodus 20, which declares, “You shall have no other God’s before me.” God never licenses us to sin if we feel like it. The ruler of the universe tells Reed and every Christian to obey their authorities.

Be subject for the Lord’s sake to every human institution, whether it be to the emperor as supreme, or to governors as sent by him to punish those who do evil and to praise those do good.

– 1 Peter 2:13-14

Reeds fight for freedom did not originate in heaven. It was birthed out of his own thinking. He claims Christianity is his world-view, but his actions align with the religion of self. He does what he thinks is best.

Sadly, he is not alone. Seventy-six percent of Christians believe “that the best way to find yourself is to look inside yourself” and ninety-one percent of Christians believe “you have to be true to yourself.” Though many Christians tap their Bible app every Sunday or crack open their Bible on Wednesday night, they actually function more like secularist than Christians. When these Christians make decisions about whether or not to divorce their spouse, about how to discipline their kids, or about how to handle an argument with a coworker, they mimic Reed. They follow the random ideas floating around in their head instead of seeing what God’s Word has to say about their lives.

As Reed has shown, such decision-making based on our personal autonomy never ends well. Often what seems like a great step towards personal freedom and fulfillment is actually a step towards chains and disappointment. As Proverbs 1:32 says, “For the simple are killed by their turning away, and the complacency of fools destroys them.”

The wisdom to navigate life and to find true joy and happiness is found in obeying the God of the universe.

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight. – Proverbs 9:10.

So what kind of Christian are you? Are you the kind that drives into monuments or the kind that fears the Lord?