Will My Prayers Undo God’s Good Plans For Me?

In Romans 8:26-27, Paul provides Christians with the antidote to a misconception of God’s character that kills prayer faster than weed killer eliminates grass. The error or fear that Paul sets his sights on in Romans 8:26-27 is the belief that a poorly informed prayer will cause the God of the Bible to do less than his best for his children. Some Christians fear that their heavenly Father will be like an earthly father who abandons his three-cookie plan for the two-cookie plan because his daughter only asked for two cookies instead of three. For example, the sister fears that she married Greg not because Greg was God’s best for her but because Greg was the object of her prayers. Had she prayed differently, she would have secured a better husband and a happier marriage…the one that God was going to give prior to her prayers for Greg. In other words, if prayer can inadvertently secure less than God’s best, Christians would be justified in assuming that they often be better off not praying than praying wrongly.

Paul’s antidote to such thinking? Recall the character of Jesus, the work of the Holy Spirit, and the knowledge of the Father.

Recall Jesus’ Character

Jesus proved that his character was free of trickery and deceit when he died on the cross, was buried, and rose again to accomplish the greatest good for his followers: their salvation from sin and death. And just as Jesus delighted in saving his people from their ultimate demise, he also delights in saving them from their current difficulties, hardships, and struggles. The Jesus who delighted in healing the woman with the flow of blood, casting out demons, and purifying lepers is the same Jesus who sits in the heavenly throne room listening to our prayers. Because of this reality, the author of Hebrews encourages Christians to come boldly to the throne of grace without fear or hesitation. “Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need (Heb. 4:16).”  When believers ask God for help, they can be sure that Jesus will do what is best for them because Jesus is always good.

Recall the Work of the Holy Spirit

And not only is Jesus good, he gives Christians the help of the Holy Spirit.

The Holy Spirit proves to be the greatest of gifts because the Spirit regenerates and sanctifies the believer. The Spirit opens a believer’s eyes during the salvific process so that he can understand his sin, the work of Christ, and then respond to that work with repentance and faith. As Paul explains to Titus in Titus 3:5: “he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit.”

The Spirit also sanctifies believers, enabling them to become more like Christ as they seek to work out their faith. As the apostle Peter notes in 1 Peter 1:2, Christians grow in righteousness through “the sanctification of the Spirit.”

Though much of the Spirit’s sanctification work takes place on earth, it also possesses an important heavenly aspect. Paul writes in Romans 8:26: “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.” As Christians march through this world of hurts, sorrows, pains, disappointments, and suffering, the Spirit helps believers with their prayers. When death threatens, relationships break down, or pain wrecks their bodies, the Spirit comes alongside Christians who can do little more than groan “God help me,” and takes their full set of needs to the Father and the Son.

The Spirit’s intercession work also mitigates the danger of praying against God’s secret will. Even when a Christian asks for the wrong thing because of sin (lusting after marriage) or simply from a lack of knowledge (should I date Greg or Fred), the Spirit will always advocate for the Christian’s best outcome in accordance with Jesus’ good character. Such knowledge of the Spirit’s working gave Paul comfort when Jesus refused to remove the thorn from Paul’s flesh. Writing of that incident in 2 Corinthians 12:8-10, Paul said, “Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”’ The Father and the Son through the Spirit gave Paul the best outcome for his soul even when he did not ask for it. Consequently, the woman may be certain that Greg was always God’s bes’t for her regardless of how hard her marriage becomes. Even if she asked wrongly, the Spirit asked rightly.  

Recall The Knowledge of the Father

And not only does the Spirit ask rightly, his prayers and messages always get to the Father, ensuring their perfect implementation. In Romans 8:27, Paul explains, “And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God.” The person of the Trinity who searches hearts is the Father as the broader witness of Scripture makes clear. Jeremiah 17:10 proclaims: “I the Lord search the heart and test the mind.” The Father perfectly knows the thoughts of the Spirit who intercedes for us according to God’s will. The Spirit’s requests, which reflect Jesus’ good plans for his saints, always come to the Father perfectly intact, untainted by human sin or limitations. In other words, the Christian’s prayers will always turn out for the best not because he prays best and true but because Jesus is good, the Spirit is working, and the Father has knowledge. As Jesus reminds us in Matthew 7:11, “If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!”

Final Thoughts

The Spirit’s prayers on the Christian’s behalf do not guarantee a life of ease, comfort, or peace. Many times, God’s best will lead believers into seasons of hardship and sorrow as the apostle Paul’s life makes clear. He lived “in danger from rivers, danger from robbers, danger from my own people, danger from Gentiles, danger in the city, danger in the wilderness, danger at sea, danger from false brothers (2 Cor 11:26).” The Lord will call sisters to faithfully live in marriages with Greg’s of this world. And when Christians find themselves in hardships and surrounded by suffering, they should pray and pray boldly knowing that through their prayers and the prayers of the Spirit “all things work together for good (Rom 8:28).”

For the Love of Neighbor Oppose VA Amendments 1 & 2

Christians should unashamedly join forces to defeat Amendments 1 and 2 to the Virginia Constitution. Both proposed amendments violate God’s clear commands and thereby threaten to harm Virginians. Amendment 1 threatens harm to children (both pre-born and born) and women by expanding access to abortion.  Amendment 2 threatens to harm Virginia’s families and churches through redefining marriage. One undermines the sanctity of life and the other the sanctity of marriage. Both should be opposed this November.

Gospel and Politics?

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Admittedly, the Christian’s foremost mission remains the proclamation of the gospel. But this mission does not negate the Christian’s calling to be the salt of the earth (Matt. 5:13). Jesus commissioned his followers to preach and to preserve their culture from the rot of sin. To quote the prominent 20th century British Theologian John Stott, “We who are Christians should be more courageous, more out spoken in condemning evil.”

Consequently, the Christian should advocate for good laws and oppose unjust laws. As Jeremiah 29:7 notes, God’s people should “seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you.”

When a constitutional amendment promises to institutionalize laws that violate the clear commands of Scripture and that will thereby harm his neighbors, the Christian has an obligation to step into the public square and advocate for justice. Stott notes, “However small our part my be, we cannot opt out of seeking to create better social structures, which guarantee justice in legislation.” In other words, love demands that Virginia’s Christians raise the flag of biblical warning and advocate for the defeat Amendments 1 and 2 to the Virginia Constitution.

Oppose Amendment 1

Christians should oppose Amendment 1 because it threatens to harm children (both pre-born and born) and women.

The amendment eliminates all restrictions on abortion, allowing women to murder their children through the third trimester if a physician has determined that the child’s death is needed “to protect the life or physical or mental health of the pregnant individual.” If a woman feels that her baby will cause her stress or anxiety or prove disadvantageous to her life in any way however small, she can have an abortion up to the moment of birth. And if the child somehow survives the process of being pulled apart and crushed, doctors do not have to care for the child and can let it die. Amendment 1 threatens harm to future generations of pre-born Virginians and should be opposed.

Amendment 1 also threatens harm to the state’s current population of children. Because Amendment 1 declares that “every individual has the fundamental right to reproductive freedom,” it will grant minors who cannot choose a bank account without parental oversight the right to choose whether their pre-born baby lives or dies without parental consent or even knowledge.

Moreover, by using broad and sweeping language such as “every individual,” “pregnant people,” and “reproductive freedom” Amendment 1 has been positioned to permit the legalization of transgender ideology. Just as the Virginia courts expanded “reproductive freedom” to include IVF procedures without legislative action, the Virginia courts could, on the basis of Amendment 1, expand the term “reproductive freedom” to include sex-change operations and hormone blockers. And if the courts made such a decision, men, women and children of all ages (and without parental consent or even knowledge) would have a constitutional right to transgender health care. In other words, the state could override a parent’s objection to puberty blockers and start giving a fifth-grade girl puberty blockers.  Amendment 1 possesses the potential to harm Virginia’s children and should be opposed.

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Lastly, this amendment threatens to harm the very women it seeks to empower – those getting an abortion. By increasing access to abortion, the state of Virginia is exposing more women to mental health challenges. Studies have shown that women who murder their children in the womb are 3.4 times more likely than women who give birth to their children to need mental health services. Women who have abortions are more likely to suffer depression and anxiety and to be addicted to drugs or alcohol than women who give birth.

Moreover, Amendment 1 promises that the Commonwealth of Virginia will not “prosecute…any individual for aiding or assisting” in the murder of a baby as long as the mother had given “voluntary assent.” In other words, the pimp who forces a woman to murder her baby so she can return to the streets or the back-alley doctor who performs a shoddy abortion that leaves the mother with lasting physical pain would both be excused from prosecution if the mother signed a consent form…a form that could be easily forged.  Amendment 1 will not empower but harm the women of Virginia and should be opposed.     

Oppose Amendment 2     

The Christians should oppose Amendment 2 because it threatens the well-being of Virginia’s families and churches.

The evangelical church believes that God established marriage between a man and a woman (“male and female he created them – Gen. 1:27”) to express God’s love for his people. Marriage also blesses society with a structure that facilitates the human flourishing of the husband, the wife, and their resulting children. According to a recent study, 39% of women who are married with children reported being very happy while only 24.7% of single women with no children claimed they were very happy. Similarly, 35% of men who are married with children reported being very happy while only 13.8% of single men with no children reported being very happy. And of those married couples, the happiest and most stable marriages were those that affirmed the traditional Catholic or Protestant view of marriage. While 79% of Catholics and 73% of Protestants who affirmed their church’s view of marriage had happy marriages, only 38% of Catholics and 18% of Protestants who disagreed with their church’s teaching on marriage had happy marriages. God’s marriage directives produce human flourishing.  

Moreover, while more than one out of every two heterosexual married couples have children, only slightly more than 3 out of every 10 female same-sex couples have children and only 1 out of every 10 male same-sex couples have children. In short, the biblical or traditional view of marriage offers Virginians the best chance to have children, to have a happy marriage, and to have their best life.

By working against God’s good design, Amendment 2 will push Virginians away from the very path that promises them happiness to the path of gender confusion that has been shown to produce unhappy and anxious adults. Love of neighbor compels Christians to vote no on Amendment 2.    

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Moreover, Amendment 2 makes no allowances for the pastor who rejects the state’s redefinition of marriage. If a pastor refuses to perform a wedding of “two adult persons…on the basis of sex, gender,” he will be in violation of Amendment 2 and subject to the punishment of the state. In other words, Amendment 2 will empower Virginia to tell pastors who they can and cannot marry and then to fine or imprison those pastors who refuse to abide by the law.

Admittedly, the Supreme Court of the United States will most likely override any changes to the Virginia Constitution that run contrary to the U.S. Bill of Rights and will come to the aid of Virginia’s pastors. But the writers of Virginia’s Amendment 2 also understood that the legal process and its corresponding fees will prove more than punishment enough for countless churches in Virginia as Masterpiece Cakeshop in Colorado discovered. The legal process is punishment. Amendment 2 should be opposed because it threatens the well-being of Virginia’s families and churches.

Vote No

On most issues, Christians should hold their political positions humbly, recognizing that Christian principles can be worked out in a host of diverse ways. For example, Christians can in good faith argue for raising taxes to pay the dogcatcher more or for cutting taxes to pay the dogcatcher less. Neither position is essentially the Christian position.

But when a law – or in Virginia’s case two amendments – violates God’s commands against murder and for marriage, a Christian position does emerge…and should be defended. In other words, Christians should seek the glory of the Lord and the the well-being of their neighbors and vote no on Virginia Amendments 1 & 2 this November.

For the love of neighbor oppose Amendments 1 and 2.

Hope For the Sideline Christian

Buried deep inside the 70-verse list of returned exiles in Ezra 2 resides the story of a clerical error any reader who has spent the day at the DMV can readily identify with and benefit from.

Desiring be a part of God’s supernatural work, the sons of Barzillai travel to Jerusalem to serve as priests in the new temple. But before they can pass go, the Jewish state presses pause on their application because of an administrative error. Ezra 2:62 reports, “These sought their registration among those enrolled in the genealogies, but they were not found there, and so they were excluded from the priesthood as unclean.” Though this providential clerical error undoubtedly discouraged the sons of Barillai, it also conveys a beautiful truth that promises to encourage all Christians: namely, that Christians can glorify God irrespective of where and how they serve in God’s kingdom.

When God Redirects

While the passage unquestionably speaks to a congregation’s need to guard the offices of the church from being corrupted by unqualified men as 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 affirm, it also speaks to those members who can no longer serve prominently in their local church. Though they desire to oversee a Sunday school class, disciple new mom, or serve as the deacon over facilities, they awake one day only to discover that God’s divine providence has put an end to their service. For some, old age and failing health rob them of the strength needed to keep teaching. For others, the arrival of their first child redirects their discipleship time to diapers and sleep schedules. For others, caring for a loved one battling cancer consumes all the energy that would have gone toward changing the shut-in’s air filters and light bulbs. Like the sons of Barzillai, Christians can find themselves barred from ministry. They have not openly violated God’s law and offered unholy sacrifices as the faithless priests had done in Leviticus 10. Rather, God’s providence which surpass human understanding had prevented their service.   

Always for Glory

When God directs Christians out of public ministry, they can be tempted to complain about and disparage their new setting. Like the saints in Ezra 3:13 who mourned the construction of the second temple because they feared it would not be as physically glorious as the first temple, today’s sidelined Christians can be tempted to fear that their new season of less or different activity will bring God less glory than previous years of service.

Thankfully, the opposite is true. The believer’s ability to glorify God is not tied to his or her station in church but to being part of God’s people. The Lord stirred and directed the sons of Barzillai just as much as he stirred Jeshua and Zerubbabel who played a prominent part in the temple’s reconstruction. God called all of them to Jerusalem and assigned all of them to the place that he providentially knew would be best for them and his kingdom. What brought God glory was not the size or prominence of an exile’s post but his faithfulness in that post. God is just as glorified in the faithful prayers of the dear saint in her nursing home bed as he is by the prayers of elder standing behind the pulpit.

Consequently, when God directs men and women out of more prominent ministry roles, he is not sidelining them or putting them out to pasture. He is repurposing them. P.B. Powers rightfully offered the following encouragement to the chronically ill: “Sick man, you have a place of usefulness for God, not the old place, but his place – the place which is best in the eyes of the all-wise one (39).” For some, that service may take the form of prayer. For others, that may take the form of writing encouraging notes and emails. For others, that may take the form of listening to and glorifying God through reading, listening to sermons, and singing hymns.

Lloyd-Jones Agrees

At the end of his life, the famed twentieth-century preacher Martyn Lloyd-Jones found himself sidelined from the pulpit because of his ongoing battle with cancer. Though many of his contemporaries assumed that Lloyd-Jones would be distraught over this change, Lloyd-Jones’ friend Ian Murray reported the opposite to be true. Lloyd-Jones told Murray, “Now I can pray for you men…People say to me it must be very trying for you not to be able to preach – No! Not at all! I was not living upon preaching.” In other words, Lloyd-Jones had no reason to be discouraged for God was just as glorified by Lloyd-Jones’ public preaching to thousands as he was in Lloyd-Jones’ private praying for tens and hundreds. In this sense, no believer can be truly sidelined from ministry for the Lord has designed every act of worship in every setting to glorify him. As Paul notes in Philippians 1:21, “To live is Christ.”

Final Thoughts

In short, all stations in life and the corresponding ministry are designed to glorify God. The eight-year-old bouncing through kids ministry by faith, the forty-year-old preaching to jam-packed auditoriums by faith, and as an eighty-year-old shuffling between chairs by faith can and do glorify God. To quote Paul in 1 Corinthians 10:31, “So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”

Moreover, God will always direct us to the place that is best for our soul and that will most glorify him even if he must move us about through a clerical error or cancer. Even in those moments, Christians can rest assured that God is working all things together for their good.

Dear believer, if you feel sidelined, take heart. You have not been sidelined but redeployed for the glory of God.