Why is the Church Such a Mess?

why-is-the-church-a-messThe evangelical church in America is a sad mess. Mega church pastors are being booted from their churches for undisclosed moral failures. Smaller churches are consumed with the with the temperature of the sanctuary, the color of the carpet, and the type of coffee being used. Church members repeatedly fill social media with a laundry list of complaints that reflect nothing other than petty selfishness.

And the moral dysfunction that stains and increasingly defines can easily be traced back to theological dysfunction. Most Christians know little to nothing about doctrine. They simply dress up the culture’s ideas in religious terminology. Seventy-six percent of practicing Christians believe that we find our selves from within and that we should not criticize the life choices of others. Seventy-two percent believe that happiness is found in pursing the things you desire most. And 61% believe that people can believe whatever they want as long as they do not try to influence society.  And those that do hold to some form of meaningful religious actions often resemble the works-based faith of the Pharisees more than the of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Though a majority of non-Christians know Christians, only 15% of non-Christians know Christians who have been positively changed by their faith.

Why is the church so messed up? Why is the church which follows the Bible which points to Jesus who came to cast out demons, to eat with sinners, to heal the sick, to calm storms, and to save the broken-hearted such a pathetic mess?

Many have heard the quote that, “The Church is not a resort for saints but a hospital for sinners.” While true in sentiment, the words do not fully explain why the church is such a wreck today. What does? The Scriptures!

In 2 Timothy, Paul seeks to encourage his son in the faith, Timothy, to preserver in his faith and in his ministry. The apostle reminds Timothy that a biblical ministry must be founded upon the gospel, upon avoiding worldly or false teaching, and upon correcting others in love. The more we read the words of Paul, the more encouraged we start to become. We begin to dream of church conferences based on 2 Timothy 2:14-22. We can do it! We can excel. And then we hit the “but” of 2 Timothy 3:1.

Often “but” is an encouraging word. Think of “But God” in Ephesians 2:4-5. But this “but” in 2 Timothy is not so encouraging. It shock us like those emergence service messages that briefly transform our phone into demonic. Warning! Warning! Paul writes,

But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty.

Difficult times are coming; they are here!

Yes our churches may be faithfully preaching the Word; they may be offering good biblical counsel; and,’ they may be filled with lovely people. But assets do not guarantee peace and rest. The church is under attack. The last days will be times of difficulty.

Now some of you might have breathed a deep breathe. After all no one has found the descendants of Jesus and Mary Magdalene living in France, the illuminati has not taken over the Vatican, and the world is not controlled by a twisted version of the United Nations. The ends times do not seem to have taken place…yet.

However when Paul speaks of the last days, he is not speaking of the last day. He is not speaking of the time when the anti-Christ will arise and proclaim himself to be God setting in motion the tribulation and the beginning of the end (2 Thess. 2:1-4). Paul is speaking of an age. He is saying that nothing else has to happen before Christ comes back. The Messiah has come and died and been raised after three days. The end times, the last day can begin and any moment. The time is now.

And we know Paul thinks that he, Timothy, and us are living in the last days because verse five is written in the present tense, “Avoid such people.” Those people are here. The last days are here.

What does this mean? It means, we will have difficulty. It means the church of God is under attack. We do not have time for arguments about who get to sit where or about who gets to light the candles. The church needs to be fighting for doctrine and truth. The church needs to be walking through the world with her eyes open. John Calvin rightfully noted in 1564 that,

Paul means here in the Gospel there will not be any such state of perfection in which all vices are banished and every kind of virtue flourishes. Therefore pastors of the Christian church will have to deal with the ungodly and the wicked just as much as the prophets and godly priests of old did. It follows from this that this is not a time for idle repose.

She is under attack. False Christians are seeking to gain entrance into the church by, “having the appearance of godliness but denying its power.”  Wicked men and women will claim Christ even though they live for anything and everything other than Christ. They are prideful, arrogant, greedy, unloving, and self-consumed.  And they are set on destroying the church. Paul commands the church to, “Avoid such people.”

Sadly the church in America has done the opposite. We have welcomed unrepentant sinners into our congregations. We have looked the other way when wives divorced their husbands to pursue happiness, when men boasted more about their cars than the Lord, and when families devoted more of their time to tennis than to church. We did not avoid sinners and the unrepentant. We embraced them because they promised to increase our budget and attendance stats. And then, we asked them to lead Sunday school classes, to help with the deacon ministry, and to serve as elders. We allowed the wicked to remain in the church unchallenged and uncorrected. Consequently, our churches find themselves overrun by evil and directed by men and women who do not love the Lord.

The words of 1 Corinthians 5:5-7 are proving true,

Your glorying is not good. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump? Therefore purge out the old leaven, that you may be a new lump, since you truly are unleavened. For indeed Christ, our Passover, was sacrificed for us.

What do we do to correct to fix the church? We fight against evil. We avoid those who love themselves more than God. We avoid evil by defending the integrity of the Church.

First, we ask men and women to demonstrate their faith prior to joining the church. And we extend the loving embrace of fellowship only to those who can both articulate the gospel and point to the work of Christ in their life. We welcome the brother or sister who fights against drunkenness by confessing their sins and seeking accountability. We withhold membership from the woman who comes to church hungover every Sunday morning seeking to appease her conscience with some quality Jesus time. We do not offer cheap grace. Rather we call all to die to self and to embrace Christ as their Lord before entrance onto the membership roll.

Second, we call church members who sin to repent. We recognize that all believers struggle with sin. Paul is not telling us the weak or those battling sin. He is telling us to avoid those who are known for their sin and who cherish evil. He is telling us to avoid those who refuse to repent and who refuse to battle against pride, sexually immorality, and greed. We should discipline those who refuse to obey Christ. We warn them. We patiently call them to repentance. And then if all else has failed, we removed them from the church seeking to see them restored.

We are living in the last days. Evil men and women dressed in religiosity are coming your way? Will you avoid them?

The Amazing Interns of 2018

katelyn-elyseElyse Devries and Katelyn Rahn were amazing examples of service and love this summer. They jumped into Vacation Bible School planning the moment they arrived. They prepared crafts, studied for lessons, and help decorated the church. During their summer office hours, they study intently to prepare for ABC Kids and for children’s church, seeking to reach our kids through relatable stories, fun crafts, and helpful object lessons. They happily took on each and every other task or need that came their way. They planned trips to the WARF, Fun Land, and Skye Zone. They bought groceries, read six books, ran power point, researched child-safety protocols, babysat so April and I could counsel, sang in the choir, lead special music, and wrote notes. And of course, they took a pie to the face! Kids ministry 101!

Their work ethic was only surpassed by their love for the Lord and by the love for others. Elyse and Katelyn got excited when they started to discuss the Word and ministry. Their highlight of the summer was hearing a child say, “I finally understand the gospel.” And they loved others. All summer long, I heard little voices asking, “Are Mrs. Elyse and Mrs. Katelyn going to here tonight?” The kids shared stories with Elyse and Katelyn, showed them tricks, and wrote them cards. The kids knew they were loved and responded in kind. And we as parents were blessed to see others taking a loving interest in our kids.

When this summer began, I did not know what to expect. Over a period of a month, ABC had gone from having one intern, to no interns, to half an intern, to two interns, to one, and back to two. Neither Elyse, nor Katelyn, nor I knew what to expect. Most every aspect of the program as new for one if not all of us. Yet despite the uncertainty, ABC had an amazing summer filled with gospel teaching, laughter, and fun. Elyse and Katelyn were a blessing to both ABC and to my family. God sent ABC the perfect interns for the summer of 2018.

I eagerly look forward to seeing how God works through Awana which kicks off on September 16. Yet, I know ABC will miss Elyse and Katelyn. You guys embraced our ABC, loved us well, and have undoubtedly left a happiest of marks on our church family. We are sad to see you guys go but are very excited to see what God has planned for you.

Thank you guys for an amazing summer! God bless!

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Five Things Good Pastors Do

Is your pastor, elder, or  overseer competent? Does he possesses the character qualities need to lead, guide, and shepherd the people of God? Naturally the above question begs the questions of essential qualities? What qualities or things should define the pastor? Should the effective pastor be engaging, open-minded, kind, empathetic, and funny? Does the effective pastor need to follow the Huffington Post’s advice and have “a healthy appreciation for pet participation, children squirming in the pews, and people in bike shorts and uniforms?”

Thankfully, God has not hidden the answer to this question in popular magazines, academic books, or opinion polls. He address pastoral and elder qualifications in 2 Timothy 2:24-26. Paul writes:

And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will.

The effective pastor, the elder, and the overseer avoids quarrels, is kind to everyone, is able to teach, is able to patiently endure evil, and is able to humbly correct his opponents.

The pastor should be defined by these qualities because he is the Lord’s servant. He is the Lord’s slave. The Greek word translated servant or bishop is actually doulos. It means slave. The pastor is not God’s co-pilot. The elder is not an employee who can improve the church through his ingenuity, skill, or aptitude. He is a slave. He is beholden to the God of the universe. He lives, moves, and does in accordance with the Lord’s commands. He is the slave of Christ.

1.  They Avoid Quarrlesomeness

And because he is the slave of Christ, the Pastor should reflect the character of Christ in his character. He should not be quarrelsome. The one who quarrels is one who is always ready for physical combat and who is always ready to toss out heated words. The quarrelsome man attacks others with his words, his body language, and possibly even his fists. When his sermons are criticized, when his ideas are rejected, and when his ego is not praised, he strikes out with vengeance. He insults his opponents. He takes to his cell phone, to Facebook,  to Snapchat, and to Instagram to defame, insult, and criticizes his opponents.

The pastor should not be such a man. As Paul told Timothy in 1 Timothy 3:2, the pastor should be “above reproach…sober minded, self-controlled…not violent…not quarrelsome.” If a man is violent, a bully, or someone who attacks, assaults, and belittles people to shape the church into his image, he should not be an elder. He should not pastor. If your pastor becomes angry quickly, insults others quickly, and takes offense quickly, pray for him and encourage him to repent. The faithful pastor must not be quarrelsome.

2. They Are Kind To Everyone

Rather, he should be kind to everyone. He is not just kind to those who look like him. He is not just kind to men or to women. He does not just welcome the whites, or the blacks or the Hispanics. No, he is kind toward everyone.

He visits the poor and the wealthy. He counsels the both the millionaire’s daughter and the young couple that struggles to arrive to church on time. He spends time with the senior adults, the children, and everyone in between. He welcomes Asians, Whites, Hispanics, and African Americans into his church. He is just as excited to talk sports with the men as he is to talk about sports with the ladies. He is kind to all. He avoids all appearance of partiality and favoritism. He is kind to everyone regardless of who they are and what they have done or could do for him or the church.

3. They Are Be Able To Teach

And then the elder, the pastor must be a teacher. The pastor, the elder, and the overseer must be apt to teach. He must be skilled at teaching. He should posses the skills needed to rightly divide the Word of truth (2:15). He must be able to fully grasp the meaning of each Scripture passage. And then, he must be able to convey that meaning to his hearers and help them live out the Scriptures that they have just studied together. In short, the apt teacher will teach so well that his hearers will be able to develop their own sound study habits and grow in grace. While not all elders or pastors have the opportunity to preach a Sunday sermon, they all should be teaching. They should be expounding the Word to children, youth, or adult classes during the week. The overwhelming witness of Scripture confirms Paul’s exhortation to Timothy. The terms pastor, elder, and overseer all appear with the verbs “to teach” or “to shepherd” (1 Tm 2:2; 3:2; Ti 3:2, Eph. 4:11; 1 Pt 5:1-3). The faithful pastor, the qualified overseer, and the competent elder must be a teacher.

4. They Endure Evil

And he must endure evil. Instead of getting anger and attacking people, the pastor is supposed to be kind to all and he is to patiently endure evil. The pastor should patiently endure the slanderous attacks against his character, his plans, his visions, and his actions. He should endure. He should see the attacks of others and remember that he is the slave of Christ. He should entrust his soul to Christ and extend, love, mercy, and forgiveness to his opponents. The pastor does not always have to be right. He does not always have to force others to see things his way. He does not attack his opponents through Facebook and church wide emails, and the gossip chain. He endures.

Is he a doormat? Does he allow the forceful and belligerent men and women of the community to dominate, control, and run the church while he is enduring?

5. They Correct With Humility

Paul says no. The faithful pastor is a corrector. He sees men and women running towards a cliff of and calls them to stop. He tells the married man that divorce will end in death instead bliss. He calls the greedy women to abandon her credit cards, warning her that the enticement of happiness ends in slavery to bills and stress. He pleads with the young man not to embrace homosexuality, recognizing that sin ends in broken relationships and physical hurt.

Some pastors take issue with Paul’s teaching, believing they are only called to preach. The preacher preaches the Word but the Holy Spirit must bring conviction. The preacher is not to call be to repent of specific sins. God does that. I just let the chips fall where they may. Paul is emphatically saying no. If you are this kind of preacher, repent or get out of the ministry.

Paul is telling Timothy that God has called him to confront those in sin. Faithful, godly pastors will confront their flock because they want to save them from destruction.

Pastors must be willing to seek out those who have been overcome by sin, because sin is not rational. Those in sin have been ensnared by the devil and have lost their normal ability to reason. They will not understand their sin on their own. They are not attuned to the Holy Spirit. The have exiled themselves from truth.  They will rationalize away the absurdity of paying for a $125,000 boat on a $30,000 income. They need help. We need help. We all need pastors who will pursue us and call us away from destruction and death while we are within midst of our sinful absurdities. Dietrich Bonhoeffer rightfully said,

“Nothing can be more cruel than the tenderness that consigns another to his sin.  Nothing can be more compassionate than the severe rebuke that calls a brother back from the path of sin.”

Do not promote cruel men to the office of pastor, elder, and overseer. Appoint men who will lovingly confront your sin. The devil prowls about as a roaring lion (2 Pt 5:8). Shouldn’t your pastor be just a vigilant in protecting and caring for your soul?

Is your pastor a faithful pastor? Is your friend qualified to be an elder? Does he avoid quarrelsomeness, is he kind to everyone, he is able to teach, does he endure evil, and does he correct in love?

Does these five things define your pastor(s)?