Under the guidance of divine providence, King David achieved great political success in part because he valued the wise counsel of others. David’s love for wisdom kept pace with his heroism. The man who rose to fame through the slaying of giants and armies was just as approachable as he was brave. He valued the counsel of women, prophets, and common soldiers. In other words, to lead well like David, pastors and elders must listen to and heed biblical counsel irrespective of its source.
The King Who Listened Well
The first person to gain an audience with David was Abigail, the wife of Nabal, the man David was marching to kill. After providing David and his army with food whose previous lack thereof had precipitated David’s spat with her husband, Abigail reminded David of the Lord’s faithfulness. She pleaded, “Please forgive the trespass of your servant. For the Lord will certainly make my lord a sure house, because my lord is fighting the battles of the Lord, and evil shall not be found in you so long as you live (1 Sam 25:28).” David quickly recognized the rightness of her cause and abandoned his lust for vengeance that would have prevented him from reaching the throne. David understood that Abigail had been God’s mouthpiece. He praises her saying, “Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel, who sent you this day to meet me! 33 Blessed be your discretion, and blessed be you, who have kept me this day from bloodguilt and from working salvation with my own hand (1 Sam 25:32-33)!” David rose to power through the godly counsel of wise women.
He then ended his life as he began listening to the counsel of another woman, Bathsheba. When she learns that Adonijah is attempting to supplant Solomon on the David throne, she with the help of the prophet Nathan made David aware of the coup. Spurred to action, the now well-aged King David quickly reaffirms his commitment to Solomon, declaring, “‘Solomon your son shall reign after me, and he shall sit on my throne in my place,’ even so will I do this day (1 Kg 1:30).” King David then orders Zadok the priest to anoint Solomon as king in accordance with God’s prophetic word. The faithful leader will recognize and heed the wisdom of God that flows through his sisters in Christ.
Secondly, David listened to the prophets in his life. When David seduced Bathsheba and then killed her husband Uriah, the Lord dispatched the prophet Nathan to rebuke the unrepentant king. After being cut to the heart through Nathan’s story of a rich man stealing a poor man’s one sheep and then learning that he was the thief, David grasped his sin and repented. In 2 Samuel 12:13, David proclaims, “I have sinned against the Lord.” Though consequences of his sin would follow him, David maintained his kingdom through God’s mercy because he heeded the wise rebuke of the prophet.
Lastly, he listened to the wise counsel of the lowly and even the foolish. Though the soldier in King David longed to join the fight against Absalom’s revolutionary army, the king did not go to battle because he heeded the counsel of his troops. They reminded the king that his death would bring an end to their cause and to the Davidic kingdom. The Scriptures report, “But the men said, “You shall not go out. For if we flee, they will not care about us. If half of us die, they will not care about us. But you are worth ten thousand of us. Therefore it is better that you send us help from the city (2 Sam 18:3).” David deferred to the wisdom of his men and replied, “Whatever seems best to you I will do (2 Sam 18:4).” In so doing, he avoided the fate of Absalom who went to battle, died in battle, and saw his revolution and monarchy come to a quick end.
Though his troops proved victorious, David would once again need the wisdom of others to keep his kingdom. When King David heard of Absalom’s death, he mourned so loudly that his troops’ victory procession turned into a funeral. In God’s providence, his general Joab, a murderer and often unfaithful man, saw the looks on the troops’ face and rebuked David for his excessive sorrow. If left unchecked, David’s grief would have produced a political dynamic that would have been “worse for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now (2 Sam 19:7).” Again, David heeded the wise counsel Joab offered him. The Scriptures report, “Then the king arose and took his seat in the gate (2 Sam 19:8).” David left his grief and the crisis was avoided.
The King Who Listened Too Much
But the counsel must always be infused with Scripture and Scriptural principles. Counsel for counsel’s sake proves no more edifying than solitude for solitude sake. David suffered great harm when listening to the foolish counsel of Joab. Using a story, the general convinced King David to suspend justice and to allow Absalom to return from exile. Because of this advice, Absalom managed to gain the power and influence needed to bring about his revolution. Had David executed Absalom for Ammon’s murder, 2 Samuel would have been much shorter and happier. In other words, the validity of one’s counsel rises and falls in accordance with its adherence to the Scriptures and Scriptural principles.
New Covenant Leaders Listening
Though the people of God no longer abide under the Davidic covenant, the principle of heeding wise counsel irrespective of its sources should be heeded by those pastors and elders that lead the new covenant people. The wise elder or pastor will value the biblical counsel of others. He will not assume that he always knows best, recognizing that God conveys wisdom through his spouse, the men and women in his church, his fellow elders and pastors, and even at times (especially about non-biblical matters) even through unbelievers. Whenever a pastor or elder encounters counsel infused with biblical principles, the new covenant leader should listen and apply the counsel he has received. When his wife encourages him not to speak so rashly and unkindly to others he should heed her, repent, and change his ways. When his fellow elders rebuke him for posting a foolish comment on social media, the pastor should take it down and ask for forgiveness. When church members encourage him to rest and take a sabbatical, he should heed them. And when the unsaved but gifted electrician warns him that the church will burn down unless the wiring is replaced, he should heed him. The wise pastor – and by extension Christian – will welcome the wise counsel of others. As King David’s son Solomon wrote in Proverbs 11:14, “in an abundance of counselors there is safety.” May God give us all the grace to listen well.
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