Tips For Reviving Your CHRISTmas Spirit

tips-for-reviving-your-christmas-spiritAre you feeling a little down this Christmas? Can you relate with Charlies Brown? You like sending Christmas cards, getting presents, and decorating Christmas tree, but you still feel like something is missing. You still feel a touch incomplete. You found yourself down this holiday season and would agree with Linus, that of all the Charlie Browns in the eorld, you are the Charlie Browniest.

When we feel down, our hearts and the kind voices of others try to revive our Christmas spirit by usually pointing to three things.

First, we seek to find joy in rest. We rejoice in the fact that we have a few days or hours off from work. Life slows down, and for a few hours the rat race is on hold. If nothing else, we can rejoice in the ability to sleep in.

Second, we can seek to find joy in relationships. Every Hallmark Christmas movie proclaims that Christmas is worthy celebrating because the holiday helps men and women discover who they are and who they are meant to be with. Parents reunite with their kids, kids rediscover their parents, and of course somebody gets an engagement ring before the credits roll.

And lastly, we seek to find Joy in the worldly peace of the Christmas. As we dance to Christmas songs, and greet strangers with a smile, our chest begins to warm with feelings of hope. We once again notice that our fellow human beings are not so bad after all. Since people can be nice at Christmas, we dream of people helping old ladies all year round. We can find joy in celebrating the universal goodness of humanity.

And while all these theories sound promising, none of them will revive our Christmas’ spirt. None of them will fill that hole in our hearts.

gettyimages-112799183-1510597982Our morning to sleep-in can be quickly disrupted by a sick child. Even worse, our coworker may have a sick child and call us to take her shift. The relationships can as easily produce hurt as joy. Family members just as quickly snub our Christmas dinner invite as come to our home. Couples just as easily get divorced as get engaged over the Christmas weekend. And just as soon as we convince ourselves of the goodness of humanity, someone hits our parked car and takes off without leaving a note. Terrorists attempt to blow up subways and happy shoppers. And, therapist’s offices become overrun with request for counseling. Christmas spirit does nothing to change the sad, troubled, and difficult state of mankind. The promises of rest, relationships, and world peace fail to give us lasting and substantial hope.

To revive our hearts, we need to remember Paul’s word in 1 Timothy 1:15:

“The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Jesus Christ came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost.”

To find hope for the first time or to revive our failing hearts, we need to renew our focus on the work of Christ. And we must not focus purely on Christ the baby as a symbol of peace and hope. He is that. But he is much more. He is our savior. He came into the world to save sinners. As the angels tell the shepherds in Luke 2, the message of Christmas is glorious because our savior has come. Jesus is God become flesh. He has come to live the perfect life that we have attempted to live. He came to die for our sins on the cross. And he came to rise from the grave and to gain victory over death. He came to supply meaning when there was no meaning. He came to fill the hole in our hearts this Christmas. He is the answer to our Charlie Browniness. He is our hope. Linus reminds Charlie Brown of this truth. And we will only find hope amidst all the commercialization, broken relationships, and empty mail boxes of Christmas if we worship Christ as our savior.

To have access to Jesus’ power, we must realize that we are sinners. Paul says that Jesus came to save sinner, “of whom I am the foremost.” Paul boldly and loudly declares to the world that he is the chief of sinners. He proclaims that he is horribly wicked,beyond help and beyond saving. No person, religion, or self-help program can fix Paul and get him back into a right relationship with God. He is the chief of sinners.

To have hope, we must first realize that we are hopeless. Before we will see our need for Jesus and before we can understand why the angel’s message to the shepherds was good news, we must understand that we are horribly wicked people. We must understand that our little lies, our little outburst of anger, and our little mean comments are huge in the eyes of God.  We must see that the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, three-in-one, are perfect, glorious, and holy. And we must grasp that we are not holy. We must understand that we are not a little wicked, but desperately wicked and beyond repair when compared to the God of the universe. As John Calvin said, “men are never duly touched and impressed with a conviction of their insignificance, until they have contrasted themselves with the majesty of God.”

Often, we fall into misery and despair at Christmas because we minimize our sin problem. We tend to look around at the world and assume that we are not that bad or that broken. We think that moving to a new house will make us happy. We believe a new job or school will fix our social problems. We think a raise will wipe away the emptiness inside. We think a few drinks or few illegals drugs will empower us to handle the stresses of bills, work, school, and relationships. We think that we are not so bad off. We pine away for money, degrees, new friends, nicer clothes, bigger homes, and happier experiences. And yet all the while, our problems never go away. Sure, we feel less stressed when drunk and on drugs, but now our budget is a wreck and credit cards bills are mounting. We secure a new job, but now we neglect our family. We strive for money and fail to get it and not feel more depressed and hopeless.  By failing to realize that we cannot fix our heart and change our lifestyle, we doom ourselves to failure.

To fill the void in our heart this Christmas, we must realize that we are the chiefs of sinners. We must realize that we cannot fix ourselves. When we gaze on the perfection and power of the baby Jesus, we should come away convinced of our utter worthlessness.

Thankfully as Paul already noted, our story does not end with our sin. Jesus came to save the chief of sinners. Jesus came to save messed up wrecks like you and me. Jesus came, lived, died on the cross, and rose again because he knew people like you and me would lie, steal, commit fornication, get drunk, and get angry. He came to save sinners. Those words represent the hope of Christmas!

If you find a gaping hole in your Christmas spirit this year, I encourage you to reflect on Paul’s words. Remember that Christ came to save sinners.  Remember that life truly is bad, hard, difficult and anything but the storybook life pictured on T.V because the world is full of people like you and me. And then remember we have great hope because God has saved us from our sin and sorrow. Yes, the life of the Christian is still hard. Yes, the times are difficult. But those who love Christ have a new heart, not just one two size bigger. We have a new heart and the Holy Spirit.. Life will be good and joyful because God is with us. The emptiness in our stomach is not the final judgment on our life. God has saved us. We have great hope even if we have nothing under the tree.

And if you have never experienced the saving power of Christ, if you are still busily running around trying to fix things, I encourage you to stop. Look to Jesus who saves. Admit that your are beyond help and then repent and believe. Trust Jesus to save you.

Jesus has come to save sinners. No person has to be the Charlie Browniest person this Christmas!

What Do We Tell Our Kids About Santa?

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Seeing worry take hold of our child’s face, we begin frantically scanning our mental database of naughty children.  We seriously wonder why some erudite person measuring less than four feet tall would shatter our child’s sweet imagination by declaring, “Santa Clause isn’t real.”  And now thanks to this miniature scrooge, we must look into our child’s perplexed eyes and answer the lump of coal of question, “Is Santa real?”  As we determine what to say, we must remember to turn to the ultimate source of all things Christmas, the Bible. In the pages of Scripture, we will find the perfect answer to the Santa Clause question.

The Bigger Question

Before we answer the question regarding the probability of reindeer pulling a flying sleigh around the world every December 25th, we must first ask, “Should Christians even celebrate Christmas?” If the Bible is anti-Christmas, then we can simply sweep aside Santa and all his trappings without a second thought about whether or not he sees us when we’re sleeping.

Some Christians do join Charlie Brown and exclaim “Ugh” each holiday season, viewing American’s who celebrate Christmas to be a perfect personification of Sally who asked for “ten’s and twenty’s.” These anti-Christmas Christians argue that the “Christ” in Christmas has been replaced with consumerism. During the holidays, they complain that Christians buy gifts as an expression of self-love, ignoring the poor that Jesus cared so greatly about (Luke 6:30-31). These anti-gift givers claim Christians place presents under the tree because Christians have caved to worldly pressures.

And as Christians, these men and women have the freedom to abandon the holiday and its traditions (Col 2:16). But we also have the freedom according to Romans 14:5 to celebrate Christmas. As long as we observe the holiday as unto the Lord, we can celebrate the birth of Christ on December 25th. We can set aside the cold winter’s day to praise God for sending his son to save humanity. We can light advent candles, devote our family worship times to the nativity story, and sing “Away in a Manger.”

magi before usIn also quite natural for Christians to give gifts at Christmas.  According to 2 Corinthians 8:7-10, we demonstrate our love for Christ through gift giving.  As the magi before us, Christians can employ gift giving as a method of worshiping God. We can place presents under our twinkling Christmas tree to express how the gift of salvation brought through the life, death, and resurrection of Christ is worth infinitely more than a few pieces of green paper. Admittedly, we must always check our hearts to ensure that we are giving out of love and not from a desire to have others send us gifts (Luke 14:12-14). But as long as we give from pure motives, we can embrace Christmas with a clean conscience.  Having tasted the goodness of God, we have the freedom to celebrate Christ through gift giving on December 25th.

The Importance of Truth

Since we have the freedom to celebrate Christmas, we now turn our attention to the question about the man up north. First and foremost, we must resolve to tell the truth. Christians are supposed to be like God, walking as Christ walks (John 12:25-26). We read all throughout scripture that one of God’s character traits is truthfulness (Psalm 33:4-6). Naturally, we are commanded to worship him in truth (John 4:24). In Colossians 3:9, we read that lying is condemned as sin of unbelief. If we are to be faithful men and women of God who are daily being transformed into the image of Christ, we must be truth tellers. Consequently when we speak to the Santa question, we must speak the truth.

santa clause and Christmas treeIn addition to being a sin against God, deceptive words will harm the children whose innocence we are trying to protect. For our children to trust us and to embrace our worldview, we must carefully delineate the difference between truth and fiction. If we blend the shepherds watching over their flocks by night with the elves making toys in Santa’s workshop, we will confound our children’s ability to discern fiction from reality. We can naturally expect our children to lump baby Jesus and Santa into the same category. And when our children discover that we did not tell them the truth about Santa via google or the uppity child next door, we must realize that our children will also question the authority of Scripture. Moreover by practically demonstrating to our children that google and neighbors are more trustworthy than us, we will have to fight to regain our children’s trust. And we do not have a Christmas guarantee that we will recapture our children’s trust. Are we willing to abandon our children to google and society for cheery myth?

Lastly before we look at how to answer the Santa question, we must remember to reveal truth in a responsible manner. For example, we should not tell a 4 year old how his baby brother was created. Seeking to be truthful and understanding, we simply tell the toddler that God put a baby in his mommy’s tummy. In the same manner, we should answer our children’s question about Santa in an age appropriate manner.

How to Answer the Question

So what do you tell the puzzled little face that popped the Santa question? I think we should tell him or her the truth. We should help our children understand that Santa is a fairy tale –  a fun, but untrue story. With kindness in our hearts, we need to patiently explain that Santa does not bring presents, does not see you when you’re waking, and does not live eternally at the North Pole. In fairness, we should also mention that many people pretend that Santa is real because they think it is a fun way to encourage people to love one another. But, we do not have to pretend because we celebrate the ultimate source of love, Jesus. Since Jesus has done far more on the cross than anyone could ever ask for, we do not have to put out cookies for Santa.

The Santa Story

Although we must delineate clearly between truth and fiction, we should also attempt to maintain our children’s imaginative how the grinch stole christmaslonging. As Dr. Mohler said in his broadcast back in 2009, “Children are built to tell and to hear stories.”  We can encourage them delve into the story of the Santa Clause. We can explain how Coca Cola and other corporations spawned the buzz about Santa through TV specials and artistic billboards. As we sip hot chocolate, we can also talk about how Saint Nicholas, the bohemian duke – King Wenceslas – and Chris Cringle were real people who lovingly cared for the poor.

And once the tree is set up, we can encourage our children to explore other fictional stories associated with Christmas such as “How the Grinch Stole Christmas,” “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever,” and “The Christmas Carol.” We do not have to banish all fiction to the destruction on “Mount Crumpit.” Nor do we have to discard every Christmas song that does not mention Christ. We can have stories at Christmas.

But we do have to tell the truth to our children. We have to help them discern reality from fiction during the holiday season. And if we do tell them the truth, we will equip our children to sort through fiction and the many false world views that will shortly envelope them. We will prepare our children to discern the value of a story upon the authority of scripture. For the sake of our children and the gospel, we must be truth tellers.

Truth & Love

Once we tell our children the truth, we cannot pat them on the head and scoot them out the door. If we do, we may be sending little Scrooge commando’s out into the world intent on sabotaging Christmases far and near. These little Grinchy Special Forces will invariably wreck the happiness of other kids, parents, and grandparents with their little truth filled explosives. I don’t think its best for us to mobilize a midget-sized anti-Christmas brigade.

don not fearTo send little, lovable “Tiny Tim’s” into the world, we must equip our children to handle truth with love (Eph. 4:15). To accomplish this feat, we can remind our children that our words should always encourage others to be worship Jesus. Even if true, words that tear down and that mock the foolishness of others bring no delight to God. To speak the truth in love, we meet Santa greetings with the hope of the gospel. For example, when our children are asked if the saw Santa, we teach them to respond with, “No, but our parents give us presents because they love Jesus.”  And when our children encounter playmates striving to be good for Santa, we can tell our children to say, “We want to be good because we want be like Jesus. He is perfect and he already gave us the best gift ever, eternal life.” If we model truth and love for our children, they will hopefully adopt “God bless us, everyone” as their holiday mantra and be invited to Christmas parties everywhere.

Conclusion

Although the Bible never mentions jolly old Saint Nicholas by name, Scripture does provide us with the answer to the Santa question. We do not have to fear our child’s imagination. We simply imitate our Savior and proclaim truth. And as we gently help our children understand who Santa really is, we will prepare them for something far better. We will show them how to worship the little babe who has come to give us eternal life on Christmas and throughout the year! Dear friends,

Let nothing you dismay
Remember Christ our savior
Was born on Christmas day
To save us all from Satan’s power
When we were gone astray
Oh tidings of comfort and joy

Have a Merry Christmas!