Don’t Waste Your Spiritual Crisis

Rahn Emmanuel, the former Mayor of Chicago, sent the media world into a conniption fit when he said, “You never want a serious crisis to go to waste.” Despite the controversial nature of the phrase, the idea was not born in the political world. The Scriptures encourage Christian to not let their crises go to waste. James reports that crises and trials which test our faith can produce “steadfastness” which enriches and purifies our spiritual lives. Conversely, Matthew 13:21 warns that tribulation and persecution cause one to fall away from the faith delivered once for all. Though ever house on the spiritual bluff will be tested by storms, the outcome of those gails can either lead people to spiritual enrichment upon the rock of Jesus Christ or to spiritual death upon the sands of doom.

How do Christians keep their crises from going to waste?

We love the Lord with all our heart soul mind and strength and our neighbor as ourselves. After spending a deceitful year in the land of Philistia, David’s life comes crashing to a halt. He and his men had been ungraciously removed from their post in the Philistine army. When they return home to console their wounded egos, they find burnt walls and empty rooms. Every woman and child they left behind had been captured. The text reports that “David and the people who were with him raised their voices and wept until they had no more strength to weep (1 Sam 30).” David is greatly distressed because his family is gone and because his men speak of stoning him. All David has left is God. And to God, David turns. First Samuel 30:6b says, “But David strengthen himself in the Lord his God.” David returns to God. He stops listening to his heart. He stops listening to his men. David returns to the promises of his God In 1 Samuel 23:17, the expression strengthening someone in the Lord is followed, Jonathan saying, ““Do not fear, for the hand of Saul my father shall not find you. You shall be king over Israel, and I shall be next to you. Saul my father also knows this.” To strengthen their hearts in the Lord, Christians must recall God’s promises of salvation, mercy, love, justice, and grace. They should preach to their hearts telling their weary souls of the wondrous might of their God.

And how do Christians know their hearts have been strengthened?

They ask God what to do. For the first time in more than a year and four months, David consults the Lord about what do to next. And God responds, ordering David to rescue his family and the families of his men. David goes.

Often Christians feel overwhelmed by cancer, financial insecurities, and by troubles at school because they refuse to obey God. They attempt to fix their problems through hard work, determination, and self-centered manipulation. They refuse to obey God and refuse to love others. To make the most of trials, Christians must know and obey the Word of God. There is no other way but to trust and obey.

When Christians love God, they cannot help but love their fellow man. The minute David returns to the God, he begins to love others well. When he meets the sojourning Egyptian slave, David lives out Exodus 22:21 which says, “ ““You shall not wrong a sojourner or oppress him, for you were sojourners in the land of Egypt.” By following God’s revealed will, David gains helpful intelligence on his enemy’s positions. He and his men sweep down upon the Amalekites, crushing the men who had stolen their families. They defend the defenseless. At the end of the day, David and his men head home with their families, their possessions and the spoils of War. Some of David’s men begin to return to unholy ideas and proclaim that only the men who fought in the battle deserved to profit from the arduous day’s work. David bluntly said, “You shall not do so, my brothers.” Why? David says, “The Lord…He has preserved us and given into our hand the band that come against us.” David shares his wealth because he understands that all wealth, power, and success comes from the Lord. He understands that the man who prays and the missionary who goes are both indispensable to the kingdom of God. David loves both equally. He does not play favorites. He loves his fellow man regardless of whether or not he is a foreigner, in distress, or unproductive in the world’s eyes.

For suffering to be a matter of all joy, we must meet the waves of adversity with the love. Friends, are you ready to make the most of your next crisis?

Memo: In Memory of My Church Mom: The Loving Jean Miller

Jean Miller

Words faded into tears as the news of Jean Miller’s death sunk into our souls. Though we were separated by age, time, and space, April and I were knit into Jean’s heart.

Shortly after the death of our first-born son, Peter Alexander, Jean gave April and me the biggest hugs and adopted us into her family, promising our families that She and Junior would look after us. From the moment forward, I was her “church son.” And she was April’s and my “church mother.”

IMG_5525She loved us well She put her arm around our shoulders as we grieved the loss of 2nd Peter. She struck that glorious balance between allowing us to grieve and keeping us from despair. Every tear-filled conversation ended with glorious reminders of Jesus’s love and goodness.

When the sun of God’s grace shinned upon our lives, Jean celebrated with us, cherishing both Luke and Lily. She greeted our kids with smiles and found ways to playful extract them from their caves of shyness. Despite’s Lily’s obstinate character, Jean never gave up trying to get our little ice queen to smile. IMG_6055Jean would stick her fingers into ears and would scrunch up her face into the funniest contortions. Somehow, Junior still got Lily to smile first, a feat Jean could never understand.Her lap was always available to them; Luke and Lily used it often. When cancer descended upon April, she and Junior were some of the first friends to call us and to pray for us. Her love for us never ended.

When her insecure “church son” launched a leadership team to minister to the families of FBCE, she and Junior took a chance and linked arms with April and me. Jean walked with April and I through insane VBS weeks, exciting nerf-guns battles, and vintage Reformation Festivals. I can still see Jean dressed in her bonnet covering and uncovering a host of fake relics as she and Junior explained the importance of salvation by grace alone.

IMG-5419I can also see Jean shaking with laughter as she and Junior explained the meaning of the rat emoji that she accidentally texted to the whole team. Though she loved to laugh, she also kept her family and all of us in line. Anytime Junior, Ian Wynn, or someone else took something too far like the expression, “The Face of Discipline” Jean would give ‘the look’ followed by a “Hey now” and return things to order. She brought laughter a joy into every life she touched.

But, the thing I remember most about Jean was her smile. Come the fun of church picnics, the craziness of Wednesday nights, or anniversary of her daughter’s death, Jean always smiled. The joy that adorned her face transcended reality and yet was grounded in the truest reality of all: the saving mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ. Though her heart IMG-5421had been nicked and scared by many a hardship, she knew the saving power of Jesus Christ. She seen Jesus transform both her life and Junior’s life. Nothing could take that joy from her. Even when she was worn and tired, the peace of Jesus shone in her face and resounded in her laughter. Her smile shone brightly when she bounded up from our table and washed the our dishes. It was that smile that graciously welcomed April and our kids into her home and kept our kids from wanting to ever leave Jean’s living room. And it was that smile, that lit up the church as Jean taught Sunday School, helped in the nursery, and swung by the welcome desk to ask how

April and I were doing. Indeed, Christ was in Jean. To see her smile was to catch a glimpse of heaven.

Yesterday, that glimpse of heaven ascended into heaven. Jean smile is the now the smile of perfect peace and happiness. Indeed heaven is her greatest gain. “Those the son sets free are free indeed (John 8:36).”  I cannot wish her back into the bondage of this miserable world.

But I also cannot help but miss my “church mom’s” infectious smile.

With much Love,

Peter and April Witkowski

The Myth of Wasted Time

Christians rightfully lament the hours, days, and years they wasted fighting with a spouse, entertaining fools, and pursuing the wrong career. They naturally assume that squandered time should equated with godless time. But that assumption proofs incorrect when measured against the teachings of the Bible. Though we may walk away from the Lord, God never walks away from his children. If you are trusting in Christ for your salvation, not one year, day, hour, minute, or second of your life has been wasted.

In 1 Samuel 29, David abandons God and lives with the Philistines. The future king of Israel assimilates quickly into his new culture, winning the confidence of the Philistine King and a place in nation’s military command. David comes within two days of fighting against King Saul, the Lord’s anointed. Had David taken the field with the Philistines, he would have lost his ability to lead the nation of Israel for either he would have fought against God’s King or he would have betrayed the trust of his new friends in the middle of the battle. Either way, David would have secured his kingdom by his hand, marring his conscience and the conscience of his soon-to-be kingdom with the shedding of innocent blood (1 Sam 25:30-31). As David stood upon the brink of spiritual and political disaster, the commanders of the Philistines intervene because the Hebrews had a history of stabbing the Philistines in the back (14:21). Moreover, the gentile Lords knew David was not an ordinary Hebrew; he was the giant slayer, the man of whom was tagged on Instagram as the slayer of “#tenthousands.” Despite the king’s plea, the generals win the day. The king tells David, “Go back now and go peaceably, that you may not displease the lords of the Philistines (1 Sam 29:7).”

Instead of recognizing the blessing of divine providence, David objects to the Philistines’ request, saying, “But what have I done?”

We know the answer to David’s question. Though the King of the Philistines thought David as pure as an angel, 1 Samuel 28 reveals that David has been less than angelic in his dealings with the Philistines. He has been raiding their allies, murdering their friends, and lying to them about his success, claiming all the spoils came from the Israelites. The Philistines had ample cause to dismiss David.

But David’s hypocrisy aside, his resolve to continue on with the campaign against Saul remains undaunted. He wants to go to war against God’s people and is restrained by a wicked king who commands David to “start early in the morning and depart as soon as you have light” (1 Sam. 29:10b). Because of the Philistines, David would be more than sixty miles removed from the frontlines when King Saul died. David could not be accused of killing Saul or of participating in the king’s death. God used evil, wicked kings to protect David from his sinful foolish heart and from cultural misconceptions.

In short, David’s year and four months in the land of the enemies was not wasted. God used that time to keep David from being actively involved in Saul’s death. God ordained that time to prepare David for his upcoming reign. God was working admits David’s idiocy.

Friends if you are a believer today, God has been working in your life. Those wasted moments of our lives were being woven together by God to get us to our heavenly kingdom. Though we should lament our sins, learn from their consequences, and seek to avoid the Philistia’s in our life with an unquestionable zeal, we do not have to pretend those time of foolishness did not exist. God was moving in our lives then just as much as now. He was sending us bad bosses, unfair judgements, and petty friends because he was preparing us to reign with him in heaven. He was orchestrating our divine homecoming. Though we may not be able to trace the kind hand of providence that appeared in 1 Samuel 29, we know it is still present. We may leave God; but he never leaves us.

The message of 1 Samuel 29, finds beautiful, succinct magnification in the words of Paul in Romans 8:28.

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

Christian there are no wasted days in God’s divine economy. Do you agree?